You feel like you’re slowly growing apart — ships in the night — even though things seem “okay” day to day.
You love your partner, but feel emotionally disconnected and don’t know how to get back to each other.
Every time you try to talk things through, one of you shuts down and the conversation goes nowhere.
You’re tired of feeling like you’re the one holding the relationship together and trying to improve it.
You don’t want to nag, push, or force change — but you also don’t want to give up on creating something better.
You sometimes find yourself wondering what will happen down the track if things keep going this way…
There's nothing wrote with you. You're human. And you've probably never been given proven guidance that can actually make a difference - especially once patterns are already in place.
“The things we were trying alone just weren’t working."
Every time we tried to talk about problems we would both just end up frustrated. We had tried reading books and setting up date night, but nothing was working.
Then we found you.
We rediscovered each other. We look forward to time together. We’re more understanding of each other’s needs. We now both enjoy sex more.”*
— C & J

"We now have a deeper bond, greater love, and a better physical connection."
“My partner wanted to fast-forward to a great sex life. I wanted him to be more attentive to my needs. I was stunned at how much closer and more loving my partner and I became after a session. We now have a deeper bond, greater love, and a better physical connection. We now look forward to our nights together.”
— Michelle

"I can now ask for what I need"
“I thought we had a great marriage, but I can see now what was missing in our relationship. We are so much happier. We are kinder. There is less tension. I’m not resentful anymore. I can now ask for what I need — and so can my husband. I’m so glad we agreed to do this.”
— Jane

They stopped blaming each other — and themselves.
Instead, they took action.
They learned what actually makes a difference when it comes to connection, communication, and intimacy — and how to apply it in real life.
That’s what allowed them to move out of frustration and distance — and back into closeness, ease, and a relationship that actually feels good to be in.
What You’ll Learn (and Why This Works)
This workshop isn’t about trying harder, saying things better, or having another conversation that goes nowhere.
In this 2-hour workshop, you’ll learn:
The four powerful steps that can transform a relationship
Moving you from emotional distance and frustration to connection, closeness, and intimacy that feels natural again — not something you have to manage, chase, or push for.
Why connection breaks down even when you love each other
Including the subtle, often unintentional ways couples shut connection down — without either person meaning to.
How to identify the exact loop you keep getting pulled into
So it finally makes sense why things stall — and what actually helps you move forward.
Proven tools you can start using straight away
Practical, evidence-based strategies that help shift how you relate to each other in everyday moments — not just in “big talks.”
How to rebuild emotional closeness and lasting intimacy
In ways that increase trust, ease, and desire, rather than triggering shutdown, defensiveness, or avoidance.
Bonus 1: X Ways to Reconnect With Your Partner
Simple, practical ways to rebuild emotional closeness in everyday moments — without forcing big conversations or overthinking what to say.
Bonus 2: The Date Night Playbook
A realistic guide to creating time together that actually strengthens your connection, rather than feeling awkward, pressured, or performative.
Bonus 3: Conversation Starters to Deepen Intimacy
Thoughtful prompts designed to open connection and closeness — without triggering shutdown, defensiveness, or going in circles.
You’re looking for quick fixes or techniques to control or manipulate your partner
You want things to change without being open to doing things differently yourself
You’re unwilling to reflect on how both of you contribute to the dynamic
You’re currently in an unsafe or abusive relationship (individual support is essential first)
Most couples who come to this work aren’t new to relationships tools — they’re tired of things that almost help.
The issue usually isn’t effort. It’s using the wrong tools at the wrong time. This workshop shows you how to work with patterns as they’re happening, not just talk about them afterward.
“What if my partner shuts down or isn’t great at talking?”
That’s exactly why this work helps. It’s designed for real relationships — not ideal communicators.
You’ll learn how to create connection without forcing conversations that leave one of you overwhelmed or withdrawn.
“What if I’m worried it’s already too late?”
That fear is incredibly common — especially when things look fine on the surface but feel lonely underneath.
This work isn’t about going backwards or fixing the past. It’s about understanding what’s happening now and changing how you respond — which is often enough to create meaningful movement.
“Do we both need to do this together?”
Doing it together is ideal — but change often begins when one person starts doing something different.
Many couples notice shifts simply because the dynamic itself starts to change.
You don’t need to try harder.
You don’t need another circular conversation.
And you don’t need to wait until things get worse to take action.
If you want to understand what’s actually happening in your relationship — and learn how to create real connection, communication, and intimacy again — this workshop will show you how.
In just two hours, you’ll gain tools you can start using immediately.
Tools that help you move out of distance and frustration — and back into closeness, ease, and feeling like a team again.
👉 Join the workshop and take the next step forward.

Isiah McKimmie is a relationship therapist and sexologist with over 15 years of experience helping individuals and couples create deeper connection, stronger communication, and more satisfying intimacy.
Her work is grounded in the gold-standard, evidence-based approaches to relationship therapy — including Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), the Gottman Method, and contemporary sex therapy — rather than opinion, trends, or quick-fix advice.
Isiah is known for helping couples who feel stuck:
Those who love each other, but feel disconnected.
Those who’ve tried talking, reading, and “doing the work” — without lasting change.
Through a clear, structured approach, she helps people understand what’s really happening in their relationship, and what to do next — so change feels possible, practical, and sustainable.
Her work focuses on creating relationships that don’t just look okay on the outside, but actually feel good to be in.





"Thank you for making this process, which could have been much more uncomfortable, as easy as possible. We feel connected now and it’s more fun. Initiating sex feels easier and pleasure comes easier."
- Laura